gostrc:
Yes it seems, though since I stick with FreeBSD 8.0-RELEASE I don't seem to have a problem. The problem seems to arise with later versions of xorg found in newer freebsd and arch.
By using LessTif, the problem can be avoided but LessTif is far too buggy and will cause too much trouble later on.
I will try to have a look at the OpenMotif mwm (hopefully be able to separate it too so I can customize it into dtwm) but the code is pretty archaic.
I wonder if the Arch linux OpenMotif maintainer (Andrwe?) aware of this freeze bug? When FreeBSD 8.1-RELEASE comes out, if the problem still exists I will talk to its maintainer.
Could you confirm that the bug is in Mwm by opening a few xterm windows (using an xterm window) and clicking on them all until it freezes
Edit:
I am pretty sure that the problem in mwm is going to be in openmotifsrc/client/mwm/WmEvent.cpp but there is more code in there than 10x OpenCDE 
Edit:
I realized that arch linux has an openmotif package.
http://www.archlinux.org/packages/commu
openmotif/
I installed that... ran mwm, opened up some xterms and.... freeze... Poor show.
Edit:
I have found a temporary solution.
in your .Xdefaults file (or the dtwm wrapper) add
Mwm*keyboardFocusPolicy: pointer
Dtwm*keyboardFocusPolicy: pointer
This will focus the window just before you click it, causing your X11 to remain unfrozen. The auto focusing is a little annoying but it will have to do until this gets fixed upstream.